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No M.S.G.
November 16, 2011

Right after I graduated from high school I took a trip to Great
Britain
. While I was there we visited the tiny little village (I
can't remember the name of it) where my great, great Grandfather was
from. It struck me that this town was the same as most European towns.
Two roads basically met at the town square. There was always a lake
or river nearby as a water source. At the center of town there was a
post office, a school, a pub, a grocery and a few other small shops.
However, the most central, and by far the tallest, building in town
was always the church.

These days towns are laid out a bit differently. Transportation has
changed things dramatically but I also think that our priorities have
shifted as well. If I had to boil it down I would say that our faith
is no longer the biggest, most centrally located piece of real estate
in our schedules or our hearts. In fact, I'd say that our spirituality is
getting wedged into a strip mall between a Chinese buffet and a nail
salon. It seems that we may have lost something important along the
way. Our ancestors built their schedules, and their towns, around their
faith. Now, if I had to prioritize what we deem as most important by
we spend our time and money I would say the list looks more like:

1. Academics
2. Extra-curricular Activities
3. Family
4. Entertainment
5. Faith

Think about it. Where are the biggest buildings in town? Who or what
gets the biggest share of your time and attention? If it comes down
to a hard choice between going to church and homework what is our choice?
Where do you devote most of your resources? Me too. It just doesn't seem right.
Don't get me wrong, I don't think the church should be the biggest
building in town. In fact, I'd say that's why many of those churches
in Europe are now empty monuments. But I do think that the list
should be a little different. In fact, from what I've read about what
Jesus said, and you'll pardon me as I paraphrase this, it ought to
look more like:

1. God
2. Family
3. Serving Others
4. Academics
5. Other Stuff Can Fight Over This Spot

Not sure that's exactly right but I think it's closer. Anyone who
knows me knows I can't stand religion. It's a killer. But I do know
this; when the center of a wheel gets out of balance that wheel
wobbles uncontrollably until either the center is restored or it flies
apart. As much as I hate to be a doomsayer I can't help but watch the
news and the lives of prominent leaders and wonder how we could
get things centered again?

Love,
Dan

 

9/11

September 11, 2011

Where Was God?  

I remember.  I remember I had a meeting that morning ten years ago and was just walking into the office at the church I was serving at in Tennessee and everyone was gathered around a small TV.  "What's going on?" I'll never forget my friend Joan turning to face me with a horrified look and explaining what was happening. Moments later we watched as the 2nd airplane slammed into the twin towers.  My first reaction was tears.  I thought of all the people who were dying and all the children who would be without Moms and Dads.  Then I was angry.

I wasn't the only one.  I remember everything on Earth stopping and people coming to our church simply to pray. People who had never been to church before.  But one of the things I remember most was my anger. At first I was angry at the Enemy...and by Enemy I mean the Father of evil.  But then that anger was replaced by another, even more intense anger.  You see, it didn't take long for so called "Christian leaders" to begin to say that the people of New York brought God's judgment down on them.  That, because of their "Godless" lifestyles, God was punishing them.  Similar remarks were made after hurricane Katrina devastated New Orleans.

It drives me bonkers when people misrepresent God.  Not so much those who don't know any better but those who should.  I expect people who don't know Him to think of Him as a far off, judging dude with a white beard who can't wait to zap sinners with lightening.  What I don't expect is nationally known spiritual leaders to cast God as a mean kid with a firecracker waiting to torture the cat.  For the record, God didn't kill anyone that day.  He received many into His care that day but He didn't steer any planes.  Evil did that.  This year’s seniors were in second grade on 9/11/01 (remember President Bush was reading to 2nd graders when he received word of the attack.) Today’s high school freshman were in preschool on 9/11/01.  So although many of you know of 9/11 you don't have a real point of reference for something so horrific.  There's a lot to remember here.  Those who died. The injustice.  That hate leads to death.  Many things.  But one thing I hope you will never forget is that God wasn't to blame.  And although we were mourning, it was nothing compared to His pain at seeing His sons and daughters embrace hate.

Love,
Dan 

 

 

Mosaic

April 7, 2011 

God and the Arts

Even a causal look out the window at God’s creation will teach us that He is all about beauty.  Creation is, the Bible tells us, God’s self-revelation. He places flowers on hills where no human will ever see them. He oversees the life cycle of billions of stunningly beautiful insects, unobserved by any human eye. He has placed millions of galaxies far beyond the limit of human eyesight, beyond even the range of the Hubble Telescope. A look at the Bird of Paradise flower or at the peacock should suggest to us that God is extravagant in his creation of beauty and wonder. 

The Bible also tells us that God Himself delights in beauty. Some Christians would probably prefer that the Bible be a clear, start to finish guide on how to live like a Christian but the Bible isn’t like that at all. Instead, we find a great number of stories, which modern literary critics acknowledge are marvelous models of literary creation. There is song and poetry and…art.  This is very unpractical.  Couldn’t God have just been plain…clear?  

Think about it for a moment…imagine you are God and you have these people that you love dearly and you want to write something down for them so that they will know who you are better and how to live.  Would you have done it the way he did?  Would you have even bothered putting in the book of Psalms (which is a book of songs)?  No.

Maybe He is trying to tell us that it isn’t about instructions or guidelines.  Maybe it’s about a journey and beauty.  This is the transforming power of art of which Dorothy Sayers wrote: 

Why does God delight so much in placing his artwork in Creation and in the Scriptures? I can think of several reasons. Firstly, God delights in making things that are good and beautiful. Beauty is an integral part of his created order. Secondly, God does not need our help. Just as man is gratuitous in his activity, so is God gratuitous in all his activity. He makes flowers bloom on a thousand hills not because he needs to but because he wants to. He surely made the peacock with a smile on his face. One can sense this delight on God’s part as he brought the animals to Adam to name. God does not need us: he was perfectly fulfilled within the Trinity but freely chose to bring mankind into being. He does not need to save us, but freely chooses to do so. He does not even need us for the work of mission and evangelism. The world is full of needs, the sum total of which is beyond the capacity of humans to meet. If we are driven by a sense of need, we will burn ourselves out, for this is not the way God has designed. 

No, God does not need us…but He wants us.  He wants to share beauty with us.

God even uses artistic imagery in describing our participation in his work. We are to be a fragrant aroma of the Lord Jesus Christ wherever we go, mediating his beauty to all around us. We have the perfect model in the Lord Jesus Christ. He drew people’s attention to his Father’s artistic beauty in creation, reminding them of the lilies of the field and of the sparrow. 

God is an artist who delights to make things for sheer pleasure not the least of which is you. We all have gifts…some more pronounced than others, but we all have them.  Some of you have gifts that won’t be shown tonight!  Organization is a gift…math…is a gift.  But…those are kind of hard to display in this format so what you will see tonight are some that we can display here. 

A Mosaic is a work of art made up of broken pieces.  Isn’t that what we are?  Broken pieces in God’s work of art? Whether it’s dance, art, poetry, juggling, story or music…if we have a gift we should offer it to God.    But it only fits together if we each…lift our gift.

 

Make War

February 23, 2011

I'm all about love.  In fact, my prayer everyday is that if I did one thing right and messed up the rest, that one thing would be that I loved well.  But make no mistake...we are at war!  On Tuesday nights I lead a Bible study for 18-28 year old singles and for the past few weeks we have been discussing the "fear of the Lord."  It's a difficult concept.  We talk a lot about the God of love...and He is, in fact, the personification of love, but the Bible tells us over and over again to fear God.  You may have heard before that this doesn't really mean fear...it's more of a reverent respect.  And while I believe that to be true, I look in the Bible and see people truly afraid of God.  I mean...these people were so scared they lost control of themselves.  Scripture says that fearing God is the beginning of wisdom.  Really?  You're saying I can't make wise choices until I learn to fear God?  And then there's this whopper: 

Psalm 147:11


"The LORD delights in those who fear him, who put their hope in his unfailing love."
 

How do we put our hope in the unfailing love of a God who delights when we are afraid of Him?  Then this morning during my quiet time I ran across this one:  

Psalm 144:1

"Praise be to the LORD my Rock, who trains my hands for war, my fingers for battle."

God trains my hands for war?  So I start looking into this whole idea of God and war.  Doesn't the Bible tell me to love others as I love myself...to turn the other cheek and all that gooey stuff?  And then I found this beastly verse: 

"The LORD your God is with you, the Mighty Warrior who saves. He will take great delight in you; in his love he will no longer rebuke you, but will rejoice over you with singing.”

God is a warrior who saves?  So here's where I landed and I think it's important for all of us to get this.  While I'm still struggling with these ideas I think the God who created the thermonuclear hell that is our Sun and millions like it by simply speaking them into being is so powerful that anyone with two neurons to rub together would probably wet themselves if they were in His presence.  Just sayin'.  And this same God, the Mighty Warrior who saves, is for me...not against me.  He "trains my hands for battle."  Why?  Because we are at war! Every single day we fight against sin and darkness...against evil and perhaps one of the enemies' most lethal weapons...comfort.  I think my problem, and possibly yours, is that we don't treat life like a battle...but it is.  I'm not talking about other people.  We must be careful to remember that we are not at war with others...but with ourselves and our enemy.    

Ephesians 6:12
"For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms."

Most of you know that my Son Elias has joined the Army to become a Medic.  And while I am proud of his choice and more than a little afraid for his safety, I think his choice of job is a great picture of our God . . . A warrior who saves.

This all came together for me this morning when I was working out in my basement using a heavy bag (it's an 80 lb. bag that you hit...alot) and I wondered if it was OK for a Pastor to hit stuff.  And then my music switched to an old song that I had forgotten about. Check it out...and remember, never let your guard down. We are at war.

Love, 

Dan 

 

The Best Job Ever

November 18, 2010

Let's play a game! Oh, come on...it won’t be that bad. I'll describe what I do and you guess what it is. 

I love what I do. I know that happens because I’ve met a few others, but it seems kind of rare to me. Most people, it turns out, don’t really like their chosen profession. I get that. I really do. It wasn’t always this way for me. There was a time when work was a way to make money so that I could later, on weekends and holidays, live. Now don’t get me wrong, I work harder now than I ever have. I don’t mean physically, I just mean in sheer hours and preoccupation. I live and breathe it. What I do is so much a part of who I am that I’m never really off work. Even when I get home there are messages, emails and phone calls. Some of which come at all hours of the night. It’s always something. Let me illustrate. 

I spend many nights in pieces. Sometimes sleeping and sometimes thinking about stuff. Many times it seems I’m in the in-between of those two. Know what I mean? That little happy place where you are kind of aware that you aren’t really asleep but you are. I’m usually thinking about what I can do to help the people in my care figure out some stuff. Or I’m worried about someone who figured out some stuff too late. Or...I’m thinking about planning some kind of event that will lead to others who need help figuring some stuff out coming under my care. Generally speaking, my job is to walk beside people. That’s it really. I give advice, cry with them and laugh with them. My goal is to love them in to discovering who they really are. Not to change them or make them into something they are not, but to teach them, through words and actions, through acceptance and love, that they are not a mistake. I believe in them whether they do or not. It’s a little weird because I’m imperfect and therefore anything I offer, I offer with a disclaimer that I too am just trying to find my way. 

I do a lot of random stuff...computer stuff, making copies, etc. but my life is people. Specifically, teenagers. So I eat too much pizza and go to plays where I don’t have any biological children. I spend tons of time listening. I also read a lot. Because I’m always thinking that if I can become better at living then maybe I could do a better job of helping them. I’m a sort of teacher too because once a week, for some reason that is beyond my comprehension, they all stagger into a big room and I talk to them about living. Some of them are hurting so bad inside it’s all they can do to make themselves come. Others, are doing OK. A few, are doing pretty good. In the summer, I load a bunch of them on a bus and take them to places where they can learn more about living free. Sometimes, part of my job is just to be around them. No specific purpose, just hang out. Ready to guess? I’m what some people call a “Student Pastor.” Really, I’m more like the tour guide. I spend most of my time pointing out junk one ought not step in and trying to help the ones who stepped anyway. 

I spend a lot of time teaching people about the Bible.  Everything people need is right there but for some reason, people have an aversion to the Bible. I guess because some well-meaning and some not-so-well-meaning people have thrown it around like a club with which to bash others into submission for so long, that it’s kind of like the O.J. Simpson jury selection. It’s  tough to find someone who doesn’t already have an opinion. So I invest myself in people, study a lot, go to camps, and listen a ton and desperately hope that God changes their hearts and lives.  Not gonna lie, it's probably the best job ever. 

Love,

Dan 

 

After Camp

August 3, 2010

Well here we are.  The Monday after camp and about a month away from the start of the school year and the kick off of Edge/Core.  I can’t begin to tell you how amazing last week was at Bair Lake.  Not only was it a total win for God as He showed up and transformed our hearts and minds but I am more excited now about what God is leading our student ministry toward this year than I was before!  Which, I thought, was not possible!  We have the great privilege to be a part of what God wants to do in teenagers lives in this community and…as a bonus…it’s going to be fun!

Imagine coming to Edge or Core and loving being a part of it so much that you invite that guy that eats at your lunch table.  He’s like “Church?  Naw man…that’s not my thing.”  But you can’t stand it…you want for him the freedom you have found so you just keep investing in that friendship and he finally agrees to come check it out.  He comes…once.  Then, a few weeks later, he talks to you about some trouble he is having at home and you remember that Dan said that we are going to be doing a 3 week series on the home and he comes back.  You start praying for him and one day he tells you that he is thinking a lot about what he has been learning at Life Church.  The next week at Edge/Core, he gives his life to Christ!  You are right there with him and you thank God that you got to be a part of that.  But that’s when it really starts.  Over the next 2 years you watch him grow in Christ to the point where he starts coming on Sundays to “big church.”  One Sunday, he walks in with his mom and dad who decided to “check out” this church their son has been coming to.  They tell Dan that they have noticed a huge change in their son over the past couple of years.  A month later, both parents give their lives to Christ and, during that time reveal that they were on the brink of divorce but now have a hope for the future.  The entire family's eternity has been redeemed and you got to be a part of it!

This may never happen for you, but I’ve seen it happen dozens of times.  And it all started when a student decided to be a part of something bigger than themselves.  When we get past the idea that our youth group is for us and our entertainment and understand that it’s really about loving God and loving others He will use us for His glory.

Look guys, I know Life hired me to be the youth pastor here, but the truth is that I’m just one guy…and I’m really not that fabulous!  I will lead as best I can but it’s up to each of us to do it together.  Want to be a part of something bigger than you?  This is your time.  Let’s do this!

Romans 12

1Therefore, I urge you, brothers, in view of God’s mercy, to offer your bodies as living sacrifices, holy and pleasing to God—this is your spiritual[a] act of worship. 2Do not conform any longer to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will. 

Love,

Dan

 


Surrender

July 15, 2010

When I was a kid my brother Brent and I did not get along…at all.  In fact, we fought ALL the time!  It drove my Mom nuts.  I remember him sitting on my chest thumping me and trying to get me to say “Uncle!” Every single time it happened I remember thinking “Never again!  I don’t care if it kills me I will never say “Uncle” again!”  I didn’t like the idea of surrendering then and I sure don’t like it now. Giving up is for pansies!!  Except for this:  In the Kingdom of God…surrender is everything.

If you’ve known me for very long you’ve heard me say there are some things in the Bible that I just don’t like and this…is a whopper.  But let me ask you this:  Are you tired of living half way?  Being half faithful? Half committed to God?  You and I keep going back and forth on the roller coaster of faith so often that all it does is make us want to puke.

Last week, while reading a passage of the Bible I had read a hundred times God gave me a stern reminder.  You see, I have been thrashing around about this detail and that problem for the six weeks since I moved to Canton.  Truthfully, I was getting more than a little stressed about so many details and expectations that I was kind of falling apart.  I was feeling a lot of pressure to be “the guy” that I hoped would be exactly what the student ministry here needs.  Last week, it finally got to me.  So…I did what I always do when I feel like I’m gonna snap, I got alone with God.  I went for a bike ride at Hines Park and found a cool spot off to myself and read this:

Matthew 6:11
Give us today our daily bread.

Then I felt God whisper these words to my heart.  ”Who owns the bread?”  ”You do.” I answered.  ”And when do you ask for it?”  ”Today.”

Surrender.  That’s all I could do is think to myself “I have to learn to surrender.”  And so do you.  The truth is, there is the God we want and the God who is…and they are rarely the same.  Surrender means saying goodbye to the God we want.  It means kicking our expectations and our illusion of control in the pants on it’s way out the door.  It means saying, very simply and innocently, “I’m Yours. Whatever that means, wherever that takes me…whatever that requires.  My life is not my own and You are all I need.”

He owns the bread.  Ask Him for it…daily.

Love, Dan

 

What if?

July 9, 2010

Can I talk to you for just a minute?

So here’s the deal:  A while back God changed some people’s lives.  They went from being self-focused and trying to live the world’s way to being rescued people who found God and wanted others to find Him too.  In 2002 a few of them got together and decided to start a church that would make a lasting impact on the Detroit Metro area.  You see, they figured out that traditional churches with pews and organs weren’t necessarily for everyone but they knew that God’s truth and hope was something everyone needed.  They didn’t have a building or anything, just a passion for other people to find what they had found…a life-changing love for God and other people.  LifeChurch was born.  Slowly but surely they gathered more and more people who had found the same life.  As they grew they figured out that they there were tons of teenagers who needed to find this life they had found.  So, they started praying, planning and working.  God sent many people over the next 8 years to help build this ministry to students.  Some stayed longer than others but at the center of it all was this passion to see students find what they had found.

While all this was happening there was this guy and his family hundreds of miles away who God was preparing to come join this family of faith.  He was learning and growing.  God was using him, teaching him and preparing him to come to this place…at this exact time.  So in June of 2010 God brought all these people together.  They aren’t perfect people.  He’s not a perfect guy.  But they both love God a lot and the guy has this unexplainable love for teenagers.  He desperately wants them to find a life with God.  So he joined his life and passion with the people from Life Church and together, they started to dream:

What if we could be a place where broken, hurting and lost teenagers could find rescue?

What if we could forget about what we want and remember what God wants?

What if we could help those students not only find God but also grow to be men and women of honor who fight for those who have no one to fight for them?

What would it look like for us to build on what God has already done here and use it to reach and grow more and more teenagers?

What if God showed up?

What if?

I’m really looking forward to this…it’s going to be quite a ride…you coming?

Love, Dan